5.31.2012

37 weeks & counting down!


Kai and I enjoying the last weeks or days before I give birth to his longed for little sister, Isabella.  This pregnancy has been interesting, all together - to say the least.  From the beginning, it was no question that if all things went well in the pregnancy that we would, once again give birth here in Burundi.  I am about 37 weeks and feel as though at any moment, she will join us.  I am extremely grateful for a Belgium midwife and new friend, Elise who will assist during the birth.  She is great at late night advice from an American calling from the mountains! 

It has been such a busy last few weeks wrapping up what seems to have a been a 2 month plan of action to prepare for new staff, transitioning to our land and moving... (as I am someone of an administration geek!) Organized, to the T.  Isai and I have our 5 year anniversary this weekend and are looking forward to a  much needed alone trip down south to a beautiful beach for a night's stay.  Malaki will stay with the kids & staff and then Jose and Mari will come do a sleep over with him at our house... it sure is nice to have friends working with us here! 

We have been extremely blessed as a family, and are growing in the Lord and His contentment as time passes.  Learning that, when things go good or bad - in the end, the only thing worth taking to heart and grabbing hold of is simply, Jesus.  Gaining all things, and at times loosing them all... at the end of the day we have something more precious, something more profound than the imaginable, everlasting life... eternity with the one who laid His life down.  Something we strive to follow, someone we strive to be like.  Jesus.  Please be praying for our family over the next season as we adjust and enter into a beautiful new season of our lives.  All our love...


5.18.2012

Kai turns 2!

As I have the privilege and joy of being with our amazing little man day in and day out, I thought I would share a few things you may or may not know about him from everyday life as he grows and flourishes here in Burundi. 
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I was recently thinking on the deep and endless love I have for him, and how hard it would be for him if Isai or myself were to leave his side as he grows, or even pass away.  I think at some point throughout life, many parents consider this devastation that can happen to anyone.  My heart began to be broken all the more for our children here in Burundi and how they must have felt to have everything solid and consistent ripped from them when they were abandoned or their parents died.  My heart aches about this.  However, we have a good, good Father and Leader who loves them and has surrounded them with people who call them their own, people who love them in such a deep way and want to be a part of the good moments and the bad.  This may not ever take the place or completely change the devastation that came their way, but God has a way of making all things work together for good for those who love Him.  And I am confident, for each one of our children - he has made a way for them in their own unique way.
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We love our little man, and know he will be an amazing big brother to Isabella who we are expecting next month!  Happy, Happy Birthday to you, Malaki Daniel – and many more years to come as you follow the lead and will of your Heavenly Father, who loves you.  More about Kai:
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Favorite Foods:
Olives, mango’s, gummies (wonder where he got that from!)
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Favorite word:
Koko, meaning agakoko in Kirundi which is bug.  He loves bugs too... Possibly just a little too much! 
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Scariest moment:
When he fell off the top of a bunk bed at the children’s home, we brought him to the city to get him checked out to make sure he didn’t puncture a lung.  I know God was with me, because when they brought him to me at home they were so fearful and upset, and I calmly just removed his clothes to examine him and see what was happening with his breathing.  (Of course my heart beating out of my chest, and my mind running a million miles per second thinking if something was wrong internally we wouldn’t have many options for him here in Burundi.  I quieted my thoughts and began to pray, then called a wonderful Canadian Doctor, Danica who gave some very helpful advice.  Glory be to God, alone… There wasn’t a mark on him, broken bone or anything wrong. 
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Best buddy:
Desire, no questions asked.  They hold hands, run together - play together… their characters mesh well together as Kai is very strong willed and often leads and Des is more laid back, and just goes with the flow.  No fighting over toys, attention… just together in peace, love and laughter.  It’s fun to see them grow together teaching each other Kirundi and the other English. 
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Uniqueness about Kai:
He loves people.  We can be on the road walking and of course, half of the population wants to greet him with a handshake because he’s a handsome little boy, and he’s simply not Burundi, but American (which makes him interesting to them).  Well, if one person says (Yambu Umwana = hello child) he automatically thinks this means he needs to go to them, shake their hand and say Mambu (he can never pronounce it right!)  Even if you pass by the person, he will insist that you go back with him just to give a handshake.  Love it.
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He’s very courageous, sometimes without any fear.  He learned how to swim going to the pool in the city once every 2-3 months… sometimes more often; meaning he has gone under 10 times in his lifetime.  From the beginning he would dunk his head under and hold his breath… one time he was out of site for 2 seconds behind a bush, found jetting for the pool to dive in.  Thankfully a friend was right there and grabbed him.  He dives off of steps, runs as fast as he can until he is near tumbling, tries to climb up his Papa’s tall ladders and so on.  This little boy, without question needs an eye on him at all times.  Please join today in blessing our little one with your prayers and thoughts.  All our love...