10.31.2010

It just felt good.

Today we went to Pastor Josephs house to spend sometime with them and it just felt good. It felt good to be cared about, to be asked "how is it living in a country so different from your culture?", to just sit back with a friend, smile, laugh, and know that their was no other motive in their hearts besides simply getting to know us better. It just felt good.
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What didn't feel so good (to my pride) was to find out that we just paid way to much for chairs while furnishing the houses. Usually you can buy the simple ones for 8,000 fbu or so, and we ended up paying 15,000 fbu. This pricks my pride simply because I love to bargain. You tell me 50,000 fbu, and I will end up paying 10,000 fbu in the end, no doubt. This "chair purchase" somehow got under the radar.... Although I invited the carpenter to the house today and had a nice firm talk with him in such a gentle voice informing him that he did us wrong, took advantage of us, and would have to change the price for the chairs or he is out of work for us. I stated, It's not hard to see you saw us as a muzungu and thought you could charge us alot... unfortunately, for his sake he was mistaken. All our love...

10.30.2010

love. walked. out.

Today was an amazing example of love walked out... One of the local churches we partner with joined us today in repairing and fixing up the houses in a "community day". There were men, women and youth who came out to sacrifice their time in hoeing, cleaning, planting flowers; really, anything asked of them! Today pastors took up tools and got to work, in a physical way for the Kingdom of God. Surly they will see the fruit of their labors in the months to come.
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Why today was so special?... A mindset we have battled time and time again being here is the willingness to volunteer and not expect something in return. Yes, I prepared chai and bread for all of them out of appreciation and love, but they simply came to serve. This is the first time we have ever done something like this without people asking and expecting money or something of equal matter for their time and efforts. Today was a sign of change, a hope for the future. They all sowed into the lives of orphaned children who will be living in these homes of refuge in the coming months. Bon Berger, thank you for such a beautiful example of love. walked. out. All our love...

10.27.2010

Tensity arising.

Living in a 3rd world country always causes you to keep your guard up, be aware at every moment. The last few nights there have been many shootings with Ak's and grenades. Our friends gathered all their family and went into the safe place in their house. It could be political, or just simply thief's, many rumors are spreading through the country. Buja has been quite tense since before the elections and it comes and goes. Its not necessarily the shootings that concern me, its possibly the lack of justice therein and knowing without justice things can always scale and escalate. Here in Muramvya, things are relatively peaceful as usual. Just simple people, trying to make a life. Continue praying for Burundi; this is the type of country that can be at peace one day, and the next in complete chaos. I am optimistic that the people desire peace from enduring so many years of political and ethnic wars; may they take hold of their nation and stand for peace and justice.
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On a more enjoyable note, Malaki is loving bananas! His personality is coming out like never before, its really a beautiful thing. Its been hectic trying to get everything done here before we leave for the US, but we are looking forward to the time. Isai, to Sushi and me to a Vanilla Chai at Starbucks.... and to seeing the family of course! I think we will take hot showers everyday we are there... to make up for the last year! All our love...
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"I object to violence because when it appears to do good, the good is only temporary; the evil it does is permanent." -- Mohandas K. Gandhi

10.26.2010

Our little wiggle worm.

Our little wiggle worm, he is. Today, I was cooking and cleaning to preparing for Isai to come home for lunch... and I put Malaki on the couch to play. I came back minutes later to a big smirk on his face as the cushion that was under him when I left somehow was thrown to the side. Got to love it. Hes been doing this thing lately where he'll cry and then smile big in between when he sees us, to then crying again. Smile - cry - Smile. He's definitely old enough these day to consciously know what hes doing. No doubt. For Malaki's sake, time to introduce some discipline! Time is counting down, just 3 weeks away until we see all of you. All our love...

10.25.2010

A child of promise.

Malaki. Growing fast, being grown, wanting to sit, squirm and even stand. He is just over 5 months going on 2 yrs...! It has been an amazing few weeks with him as he has been changing so much and even beginning to teethe. Truly, he is just like his Papi... Isai and myself are often talking about how much we treasure the gift God gave us. I used to think that after years passed of our son passing away, we would think of him less and move on with life. Somehow, in a good way we remember him often; especially when I see children that are around 2 years old.
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We had a friend tell us not to long ago, I'm proud of you both sticking in there through this circumstance as most marriages are shaken in an unimaginable way and usually end up in divorce. It for sure shook our marriage... like we could of never expected, but we are grateful to God that he gave us the grace to move forward and birth The Cries of a Child; helping those children who need us all, and are still living.
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Too often I am reminded of these chain of events, and the fact that God has destined for us to be here. At times, this is the encouragement that pulls us through when we just want to pack up our bags and leave Burundi! Our source of strength pulls from understanding that we are walking out the will of God in our lives, no matter the pain, hardship, lack of running water and being too far from our families. We know we were created for this. To bring hope to suffering nations restoring orphaned and abandoned children. This is it.
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Today. I am simply remembering the strength of God, for it has pulled us through. All our love...

10.20.2010

A thief. Or just shopping?

Kirundi, a wonderful difficult tonal african language. I was in the market a few weeks back and was confused at a situation that happened; thankfully during dinner at our friends house a few nights back I can now understand the depth to the story!
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While in the market I love talking with people, greeting people and all that comes within! As I was walking through, one said "Mama Malaki where are you going" (All this being in Kirundi of course); I replied "I am going to be a thief, would you like to join me"! Immediately all were yelling "No, Mama Malaki... OYA!" (I thought I was saying "I am going shopping, would you like to join me"!) You see the word shopping is Gusuma and the word thief is Umusuma! Being so close together, who would know the difference! I left the market that day thinking.... why was everyone yelling at me saying NO! when I just wanted to go shopping? To think, the whole time I was asking them to go steal with me! Ahh, You got to love the mix ups, and thankfully I will never mistake that word again due to this situation!
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Malaki is 5 months 3 days, loving to gnaw on German bread. Its funny, he takes it by force gripping your hands and not allowing you to take it away from his mouth. Got to love it. All our love...

10.19.2010

Next thing you know...

We started with 2 workers and next thing you know... the property is filled with them! Its amazing to see Isai at work as "the boss"...! He has a true gift of delegating and getting things done! Today we have fence builders, brick carriers, flower planters, a translator and a pair tree! Work is getting done. As I was chipping off paint in the houses yesterday, I was thinking to myself; it would have been so much easier to just get houses that are already in good condition (not that we could find any... but the idea sounds great!) But then I thought, this is a time that we can gain experience in running big groups of workers to prepare us for building in the future. Talking prices, organizing schedules and workers etc! So. I am grateful for this time and it is going great. Today we put in a request to the electric company to get light; they came immediately. This is a miracle for being in Burundi, although I can't imagine they have that much work with only half the population having electricity. I have to admit, I have been having some fun in fixing up these houses; today I bought little breads for all the workers and they were so happy (huge smiles on their faces!). The little girls carrying the bricks are Maria and Arriana 8 and 13 years old. I am torn between looking at brick carrying from children as a bad thing. One minute I hate it and believe that these kids should be in school and playing like children are supposed too, and the next minute I see it brings food to the table. I can only imagine that without the small amount of money they bring home that they would be that much more hungry. In that, I try to love on them; talk with them; and pray for them that their future is full of hope. We are here to give opportunity's to the children of Burundi, opportunities that we all deserve.
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Malaki was 5 months yesterday, boy does time pass! He is also teething.... and teething... and teething some more! In just under 4 weeks, we are in the US! All our love...

10.16.2010

The best man I ever knew.

For Isai.
When we married,
I saw you as perfect,
The ideal husband and more;
I thought I knew all about you,
All the things to love and adore.
But when you became a father,
I saw new qualities to treasure.
You enrich all our lives in fresh ways;
As a dad, you bring so much pleasure.
Our child is forever blessed
To have a father like you,
And I love you more than ever,
You’re the best man I ever knew.
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Author: Joanna Fuchs

10.15.2010

Pictures with voice.

Pictured above are pictures that speak for themselves, pictures with a voice... compliments of our friend Gin who has returned to China! Burundi is an amazing place, with endless possibilities. all our love...

10.13.2010

Womans Soccer: Muramvya!

Miracles can happen! We had a meeting today with the Governor of Muramvya speaking concerning our land and finishing up the process. He told me that there used to be a woman's soccer team that had started for just a short time in Muramvya, but the culture naturally is quite harsh against woman rights. Getting better as the years pass, I must add! The soccer team ended quite shortly after it began, but he expressed how he desires to see athletics increase more in his province. I played on a team about 4 years ago in the city of Bujumbura; quarter Kinama (our team, pictured above). We had an amazing team, amazing coacha and the week I had to depart to the US they went off to nationals! The city is usually far ahead of the up country mountains when it comes to development and adapting to new things; along with letting go of some of the traditions! We will see what comes of this as I would absolutely love to coach a woman's soccer team here. I always dreamed of playing in the world cup and playing soccer as a career and through a chain of events I ended up in Africa helping orphans... God is good and was so faithful to reveal to Isai and myself what he created us for! Nonetheless, I love soccer; everything about it.
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We will see in the near future if the Governor provides a list of woman interested in playing... and something becomes of what was spoken today?!? Only time will tell! I can only imagine for a woman's soccer team to lift off here in Muramvya it would in itself challenge the mindsets and view's of many; hopefully in the end, for the better! I remember one day someone was trying to explain to me that Christians can't play soccer... I smiled and in a gentle voice and said "I love the Lord, and I enjoy soccer! I can only imagine how much the Lord loves to see me happy!" All our love...

10.11.2010

New mailing address in Burundi!

We just got a new mailing address today as we have made our desicion to do phase 1 in Muramvya & it will also be the location of our office. Here it goes:
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Isai & Samantha Torres
B.P. 20
Muramvya, Burundi
AFRICA
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Today was a busy day as we are going through all the paperwork for the land in Bukeye; we should have the land deed within 2 weeks or so to begin building a driveway and fence on the property! Isai, myself and Malaki also took sometime at the new houses looking over repairs that need to be done, along with thinking of possible team members here to help us in painting and repairing. We could simply hire workers, although there are many people both local and foriegn that would love to volenteer their time to helping prepare a nice house for children in need...
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As for the mailing address, we would like to thank everyone who has sent us packages in the mail. From adobo to baby clothes to gummies to photo albums to medicines... the list could go on! From the bottom of our hearts, thank you. It might be hard to imagine, but here in Burundi there are just some things that are impossible to get; at times you just have to make due. I have a feeling Malaki is going to start teething in the coming days... or has started already! If anyone planned on sending something already, maybe you could include a teething ring & some teething gel for the gums for Malaki? I have heard you can use carrots also... we will see how it works! We are anticipating our time in the US, catching up with all of you; and of course getting the word out about our work here in Burundi. A small effort can make such a big difference... and the children of Burundi need our help! All our love...
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Wherever a man turns he can find someone who needs him. ~Albert Schweitzer

10.10.2010

To simply just abandon.

As we walked through the church doors this morning, almost immediately Malaki was grabbed out of my hands into the arms of one of the ladies who serves as an elder type figure... (someone respected). I thought, this will be nice.... I can sing, dance and pay complete attention to the message; as I am usually with Malaki in service. No childcare in the churches here...! Next thing you know about 30 minutes into worship, Malaki was on her back... in a deep sleep! I thought to myself, this is one of the first times I have ever seen a woman with high respect and status in their culture have a baby on their back... usually it would be the older siblings and or worker that would take their baby on the back. I was shocked! The message today was on abandoning all for the Kingdom of God. That all efforts in life should be to further the kingdom of God even if it costs you your life. For some its abandoning simple things... and for others much more; nonetheless, to gain your life you must loose it in some way. One of the scriptures that was used today always seems to bring a beautiful comfort to me. Luke 18:28, 29. .
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Then Peter said, "See, we have left all and followed You." So He said to them, "Assuredly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or parents or brothers or wife or children, for the sake of the kingdom of God, who shall not receive many times more in this present time, and in the age to come eternal life."
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Great day, great church family, great people with a heart after God. After the service, she brought Malaki to me as he had just woken up... talk about nice having someone to help during church! After church, we were informed that we have been approved for the 2 houses we are renting in Muramvya to care for orphaned and abandoned children! Over the next month or so, we will be repairing and furnishing them to get them prepared! (Pictured above is Isai making a list of repairs as he will be overseeing all the work done.) To see some pictures of the houses and property and to be updated on our progress, please look on our TCOAC Blog at http://www.thecriesofachild.blogspot.com/ ! All our love...

10.08.2010

The city that keeps going, and going...

We enjoyed a nice couple of days in the city as we had some meetings to attend to, along with continuing to purchase more things for the children's home. Today we purchased 60 meters of fabric to make curtains, bed sheets and everything else imaginable! Isai, I and Malaki along with our 2 friends also went to the big market to search out some items and I found a great new outfit (pictured above) for just $6.50! Its nice to get something every once and a while, as here there really isn't much you can do to pamper yourself! Last night we had a meeting with the American Community as they discussed the security situation currently in Burundi. These nights are great as we love to connect with new people. There are so many people here doing great missionary and or humanitarian work and sharing ideas and working together we can be so much more effective! We are officially approved for the land in Bukeye and are proceeding forth with the paperwork for the deed.... yes! As we look back over the last 2 years, there is no doubt we have seen a true miracle of God and a beautiful example of His faithfulness. Busy days ahead of us as we take it day by day! All our love...
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If you can't feed a hundred people, then feed just one. ~Mother Teresa

10.05.2010

The Village of Jeremiah 29:11

After weeks of meditating on a name that would declare love, hope and restoration over the orphaned and abandoned we will care for in the near future; we are confident in this declaration..
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The Village of Jeremiah 29:11
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Today. Has been a wonderful day. All our love...
The purpose of life is not to be happy - but to matter, to be productive, to be useful, to have it make some difference that you have lived at all. ~Leo Rosten

10.04.2010

Only in Burundi...!

Malaki and Sabine (at 36 weeks pregnant!); nice day, nice friends and an interesting church experience! Only in Burundi; and some other third world countries with massive language barriers would something like this happen.
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We were in the capital this weekend catching up with some friends and wanted to stay through Sunday so we could attend the "head church" to the one we go to in the mountains. As we prepared to go, our friends wanted to join us also (which was really nice)... to go worship together. We have been to the location before at the office, but there always seems to be too many churches too close to one another. There aren't signs, and everything seems to look the same as we are driving down the road. We come to a big church assuming its "The good Shepard". Isai asks in french, "Is this Bon Berger?" (forgive my spelling!) The man says yes, yes welcome. So we park the car, and all 7 of us muzungu's are walking into the church that has already begun with the entire audience staring at us as they make a place for all of us in the front row. The pastor looked a bit surprised as he wasn't informed of visitors from abroad coming to join their service; yet he greeted us, had someone bring us bottled water and they went on with the service. He invited one of us to go up and speak for a short time, of which Sam took the pleasure of introducing us all! At the end, they thought we were all part of the Anglican Church somehow... As I am looking around for the head pastor that we know, I'm thinking ... maybe he's on holiday. Then I thought.... I thought there were about 6,000 members in this congregation and here are only about 1,000. Yet. We continued in the service. As all of us are looking at one another "thinking... we must be at the wrong church; we begin to hear worship down the road. (The worship of the church we were supposed to attend that morning!). I asked the old man next to me, what is the name of this church, and he replied "We are Zion Temple!" I was like.... ohh... Zion Temple! At this point we thought, there is no way that all 7 of us can get up and just walk out of their service without making a big scene as we did while entering and being escorted to the front. Only in Burundi... would you find yourself at the wrong church, and just have to stick around! We were all laughing and just thinking how so many times when you ask people for directions or even simple questions the answer is usually yes, yes. Even if they don't know!
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Great moments to remember, and I figure it can't hurt meeting new churches and pastors as its always great to make connections with new people! Things like this happen a little to often and has forced us to be so much more laid back and willing to go with the flow. Life. Interesting it is. All our love...

10.01.2010

Just minor cultural differences... thats all!

Well, maybe not all that minor! Malaki and I took a nice walk today as it has been simply "wonderful" to get out of the house after being sick and having so much work to do on a daily basis. Just going on a walk here in the mountains of Muramvya could give any one a culture shock if you didn't know what to expect as far as the culture here in Burundi! Not to be improper, although realistic... just going on a walk you could see your share of breasts and its just (normal!). Isai and I were speaking last night on how as Americans, we have become so desensitized as far seeing a woman's breast; as here in Burundi the breast aren't viewed as a sexual enticing body part on a woman as much as the upper thigh would be. No unrated XXX cautions here, they are just simply breasts with no other purpose then to provide milk for the littles! Hints, why the majority of women are almost always wearing long wraps and or skirts to the ankles. Women here are breastfeeding left and right, and there is simply no shame. Sometimes... we are walking down the road and a woman forgets to put her breast back in her shirt after feeding and its just hanging out! Other times, we have even been greeted and hugged with women who have their chest right "out there"! For the more educated locals and those of the city... these circumstances change a bit, although keep in mind I am usually referring to country people in the mountains. Just things that are normal here, far far from what we know in our home country of America!
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A few other interesting things I have learned living in the mountains and having a newborn is when the babies umbilical cord falls off at about 1-2 weeks old the women have a celebration with friends and put the baby on their back for the first time, sometimes even giving the baby a little banana beer. This of course varies on the social status of the woman. One that shocked me recently was that some women that hoe in the field during the day put a pelepele (hot pepper) into the babies but so they won't poop on the momma. A final cultural difference. Its common that we see little kids caring for babies; putting them on their back, burping them and simply caring for them while their momma is working. Not exaggerating... one day I saw a girl about 4 years old caring an infant on her back. Now... the girl looked maybe 2 1/2 years old, but here children are always looking much smaller than their age due to malnutrition.
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I have many Burundian friends who often are suggesting me to take on a few cultural differences. I explain...we are American, Malaki is American, and will by all means be raised in an American culture, but I figure along the way I could also learn some great things from them too! Just trying to give you a glimpse of some things we have had to come to means with living and raising our family in Burundi... of course without being over the edge and maintaining a respect within my wording! Soon, as promised to my dear sister Trey I will do a post on birth and pregnancy here in Burundi. All our love...
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When you dig another out of their troubles, you find a place to bury your own.
~Author Unknown